Saturday, January 31, 2009

Washington's Wintery Beach


Nothing says a Washington beach like these photos. Cold, grey, zero visibility and fun! Forrest and I spent a weekend of clamming at Pacific Beach in January with our good friends, Eika & Darrell and Megan & Brian and kids. While we had no luck with clamming, we had a fun relaxing time on a wintry beach.

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Happy New Year! 2009 Already?








The year is off running. Ingrid spent the week with us instead of going to a YMCA camp. On Friday we went bowling with some friends. We had 9 kids with us. Luckily we had the entire bowling alley to ourselves so that no one was bothered by our wandering 2 year olds, our shoe-less bowlers, the balls that would hit the floor with a painful blow (really, I can't believe we didn't leave the place with a gaping hole), Peyton and Mallorie playing "Little Mermaid" atop the ball returns, and the usual general mayhem of 9 kids and 3 moms having too much fun. After bowling we stopped by the Thurston County Animal Shelter where Ingrid got a lesson on animal control. It wasn't easy explaining to a sweet and innocent little girl what "putting down" an animal means. I kept trying to dance around the "k" word, when Forrest and Zack just put it right out there and said it like it is: "They kill the dogs." Ingrid's face fell in total horror. I'm afraid our little trip to the dog pound may have scared her for life. Sorry Eika and Darrell.


Later that day...I took Zack, Ingrid, Forrest and Buckley to Capital Forest. The park was closed but we parked at the closed gates and walked in. My child had a near-to-close emotional break down. He is mastering the art of the Poor Pity Me. Hum, could it have any thing to do with staying up until 11:15 pm with his friends the night before? I'm really good at this psychological stuff.


Virginia Tech beat some team that starts with a "c." We had 3 couples over to watch the game and feast on: ham & bean soup, Ciopinno, bread, clam cakes, meatballs, and lots of yummy appetizers. The evening was filled with lots of belly laughs, the kind that...(well, you know ladies). Can't think of a better way to spend the first day of the New Year!




Christmas Holiday



Hanging out with Ingrid, Peyton, Deaven & Morgan. That day they played, lets run away from the very intimidating 15 lb. 2-year old Morgan.

Our lovely but look-but-don't-touch or don't-breathe too hard DRY tree. Seriously, I thought this thing was going to internally combust. After the gifts were opened on Christmas day, I had to keep myself from tearing it down right then and there. I didn't though. Isn't there a law again't that? Our favorite gifts: Forrest: Wii & DS games, Lit: waffle maker, Rachelle: custom-made tote for choir rehearsals, Buckley: the laser flashlight-pointer thing that he completely ignores. We spent Christmas evening with Eika & Darrell. Our great friends. They made a yummy meal of ham, squash, rice. For dessert Eika made a bread pudding that was to die for. We drank lots of wine and talked about everything.


It snowed so much here, that even a tow truck going through our neighborhood got stuck! There was something very disconcerting about that...



Lovely but deadly. Casualties of this years beautiful snow: our 85 year old Camellia tree (I cried about that one), the roundish-bush in front now has gaping holes in it, a huge branch came crashing down within centimeters hitting our house ( still can't figure out where it came from). I'm sure there are more surprises around the corner.



Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Big, Bigger, Biggest

On the way home this afternoon, Forrest and his friends, Deaven and Payton, made a snow ball. They had to abandon it 1/2 block from our house as it got too big. Later in the day, Forrest begged me to go get the snow ball with him. So begrudgingly, I put on my boots, coat, gloves, and hat to go pick up this darn snow ball so he would stop bugging me. Low and behold, I cannot just "pick it up." You can guess what happened next...what a mother will do for her child! So Forrest and I begin rolling this thing to our house. Meanwhile, every foot or so, this ball is rapidly increasing in size. By the time we get it to the corner, we are really working hard. Out of the blue, two kind people from the neighborhood on yonder, offer to help. For 10 minutes, 3 adults and 1 child maneuver this thing out into the street, huffing and puffing, now rolling it up a slight incline to our driveway. We don't know these folks, but we do have a giant snow ball in our yard thanks to them!

Snow Day!




Today is a snow day! Not school, no plans, just a stay-in-doors-and-light-a-fire-kinda-day. We rarely get snow here so this is a real treat. It's cold, cold, cold. We Pacific Northwester's are utter weather wimps. In the summer when temperatures get into the 90's we all begin to melt. With cold temps, it's no difference. We all scramble to find our winter hats, gloves and warmest jackets. Let's not forget the mad dash to find our kid's snow pants and snow boots (worn only 1-2 times last year) only to find them 3 sizes too small! This is Forrest's and my conversation regarding snow boots: "Push" I say. "I am, I am, I'm doing the best I can. Mom these boots are way too small, they hurt." "No they're not, try harder!" I say. After investigative work, I realize the boots are a size 1 and Forrest is currently wearing size 4 shoes. Oops!

Faith Lutheran School's Christmas Service


Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Forrest & Cub Scouts: Learning & Serving

Service Learning project at Thurston County Food Bank. They packed 180 "weekend" bags to go to hungry children!
Forrest builds a birdhouse with Grandpa.
Completing one of his Achievements on tools.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Faith Lutheran School Celebrates Veteran's Day

Retired Lt. Colonel Dudley & Forrest

Assembly with reporter from The Olympian


Oops, Dad forgets part of his uniform, he
borrows from another Lt. Col. and friend,
Brian pins it on and gets a boo boo on his finger

Friday, October 31, 2008

Camp Invention Summer 2008

So Forrest attended Camp Invention this past summer. He was so excited as he loves to build, learn and create. He also got a chance to escape the Tacoma house...After camp our home and its contents became fair game for his "science" experiments. One of the most memorable was his Game Boy that didn't require batteries. He took two electrical leads (from a science kit) and attached them to the Game Boy. He was so proud when he showed me. I admit, it did look impressive. The goal was to get it to run without batteries or an electrical source. The result: he fried the Game Boy. Oops...the sacrifices we make in the name of science.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

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Traditional Irish Blessing - dedicated to Lucas who graduates this year! We love you!

Masterworks 2008-2009 Season





Masterworks kicked off its 2008-2009 season with Celtic Celebrations. It was an energizing concert. We were lucky to have Fiddlehead perform with us and Commerford School of Irish Dance. As usual, Gary (our director) arranged some amazing music. My favorites were from several tunes from Riverdance, Celtic Gloria and Autumn Reel. While researching music for this concert I came across a video of Irish Blessing. See above.

Suzuki Book 1 Graduation!



Worth noting... at the end of summer Forrest completed Book 1 of violin school and is now well into Book 2! This is the result of 3 years of a lot of blood, sweat, and tears. Forrest loves his violin now and is very proud of his hardwork and progress. An 8 year old playing J.S. Bach, Handel, and C.M. v. Weber. How cool is that?

Tacoma Youth Symphony & Pumpkin Carving Contest








Where can you attend a concert in costume, watch musicians perform bare-foot and also in costume, and see Darth Vader conduct an orchestra with a light saber? The Tacoma Youth Symphony! We all enjoyed the music. Favorites were: theme to Indiana Jones, Stars War Melody, and Lion King.
Later that same day we attended Westminster's pumpkin carving contest. Seth (Forrest's friend) took 1st place in most Creative in the youth division. Only 1 award, but they figured out how to share it!


Forrest: Cub Scout, Pumpkin Carver, Flag Carrier

Boys in his den.


Korbin, Deaven & Forrest

Forrest & Deaven opening pack meeting with flag ceremony.

Forrest receiving Bobcat badge.

One day after his 8th birthday, Forrest (and his friend, Deaven) joined Cub Scouts. On October 30th, he and other members of his den earned and received their Bobcat badge. He also received a music loop for his belt. The best part of the evening? Forrest and Deaven opened the evening with the flag ceremony and performed it perfectly. Well done boys!


The Dudley's Emerge from the Fog






Yikes! It's been since April that I posted anything...

Life is a swirling mass of hot air. Sometimes it sweeps you up and hangs onto you for quite sometime. In May, our Snohomish condominium sold after being on the market for 6 months. Yes, we got caught in this slow buyer's market. The good news: we were able to turn around and purchase in this crazy time. So, for the last few months of spring, we were consumed the with sale, rental search and purchase of property. After a long and futile search in Olympia, with the clock ticking on our 1031 Exchange, we settled on a 104 year old house in Tacoma. It is 4 blocks away from the University of Puget Sound and in the bustling and hip 6th Avenue District. A great area.

Forrest and I spent the summer painting, scraping, laying tile, painting, scraping, doing yard work, painting, and scraping. It wasn't until the second week of September until I came up for air. I've never seen a kid so happy to return to school. During the first week of school, Forrest was assigned a summer memory book. Guess what made it in there? If I remember correctly, I think his drawing was of a house and a skull and cross bones. Who says summer is all about fun?

Within 2 weeks of closing, we found a renter. Even though we were NOT going to rent to an undergraduate, guess what the Dudley's did? You got it. Meet Garrett, 24 years old, single, honors student and all around nice guy. That was until he let a nice and cozy gathering of his frat friends explode into a out-of-control party. Yup, the Dudley's hit the jackpot!

In June, Grammie, 87 years old (Lit's mom) broke her hip. She was found 6 hours after falling in her upstairs hallway. It broke our hearts. Reluctantly she succumbed to surgery and emerged healthy but very frail. She recovered just fine but did not make progress in physical therapy. Right now she is in a convalescent home, thankfully in her own private room. Anne (Lit's sister) had a decorator come in and bring some special items from her house to make it feel homey. She will not be returning to her beloved home of 20+ years. Needless to say, this is a difficult time for the Virginia, Colorado and Washington Dudley's. We have felt blessed that Lit was able to coordinate some business trips on the East Coast so that he has visited her 3+ times since her accident and will leave again mid-November and December.

So, you might see why we sequestered ourselves. To end on a high note, Forrest started his 3rd year at Faith Lutheran School. He is in the 2nd grade. His teacher is Mrs. Klumb, a loving teacher of 25+ years of teaching experience. He is thriving academically, socially and spiritually. We are thankful that we found a small family-oriented and faith-based school for him.



Things we are thankful for between April - September:

*Grammie coming through surgery healthy*Anne Wescott-Dudley being there for Grammie*Lit's multiple trips to Virginia*Forrest getting 100% on all his spelling tests (minus 1)in 1st grade*Forrest passing all his geography Passport tests*Forrest getting an Attendance Award*a healthy family*Mom's work at FLS and MCE*Lit surviving his biggest emergency management exercise in July*completing Suzuki book 1 and discovering enjoyment in playing the violin*nightly family dinners*Westminster Presbyterian Church*great marriage*singing*Forrest reading 6 books this summer*surviving the Tacoma house*

Monday, April 21, 2008

Olympia Suzuki Concert


Saturday, Forrest performed at our annual Suzuki Concert. Sadly, I wasn't able to be there as I had rehearsal for my own concert that night. Big brother Lucas came from Seattle and good friends Sara and Robby attended too. I heard that Forrest was very poised and confident performing. Yeah! Three years of lessons and recitals are paying off. Way to go Forrest!

2008 Spring Break



Spring break has come and gone. Forrest's cousins, Carlos and Lorenzo, spent break with us. They enjoyed days filled with bowling, swimming, video games, Legos and pajama runs to Dairy Queen. We had a hard time convincing Lorenzo, 4 years old, that the Dudley pajama run was not going over to the track and running in pajamas. He insisted it was and that Forrest and Carlos were too old to participate. Aah, the mind of a 4 year old. Ain't it grand?

Friday, April 4, 2008

Happy Birthday Lucas & Yaniza! Vancouver or Bust!

What do you get when you put to 2 crazy teens together for a weekend trip to bustling Vancouver B.C? Lots of crazy photos, midnight explorations, cable T.V. and 2 frazzled parents! In March we celebrate Lucas' 17th birthday and Yaniza's 18th birthday. Talk about making one feel old. I remember changing that girl's diapers and attending Lucas' 2nd grade graduation. Yikes!

Vancouver was a blast. We visited Capilano Suspension Bridge, Granville Island, Stanely Park, and Telus Science Center. Our favorite exhibit at the science center was the age machine that aged photos to 70 years. Very odd to see your kids as old men! Lit and I enjoyed some friendly competition...we strapped sensors to our heads and tried to see who could relax the most over a short time period. You all think Lit won, right? Wrong! I did. Yaniza and Lucas like the reproduction exhibit, go figure. Forrest loved the challange of building a dinosaur and butterfly without instructions.

Vancouver and culinary arts. Yum! Our first night we feasted at an Indian resturaunt in Gas Town and enjoyed lots of different types of curry. It was the first Indian food experience for Yaniza. The next evening, we went to a brew pub voted the Best Brew Pub in Canada! There we feasted on the best spicy Thai green beans in my life! A hit with the entire family.

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Dudley's Dozen Dogmas: Our Guiding Principles

How this came about...a few month's ago, my girlfriend posted her family's guiding principles on her blog. I became inspired and have been waiting for Lucas to join us from Seattle so we could sit down and write ours. Here it is. We all contributed ideas and think these principles represent our family well.


Dudley's Family Guiding Principles

We appreciate the presence of God in our lives and honor and respect the faith and beliefs of others.
We honor and respect ourselves.
We practice unconditional love for one another.
We accept one another for who we are and others for who they are.
We view every day as a gift.
We value laughter, silliness and outright craziness.
We take time to be with one another.
We respect and treat our friends nicely.
We get joy from creating music and value the arts in our lifes.
We do what we can to help others.
We take loving care of our pets.
We strive to keep our bodies healthy by exercising and eating nutritious and delicious foods.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Local Newspaper Visits Forrest's Class


Charity Drive Helps Kids Flex Math Skills by Venice Buhain, The Olympian
LACEY — The first-graders at Faith Lutheran School have counted to more than 1,000 for a good cause.

That's the number of toys and books their class has collected so far for St. Peter Family Medicine, a teaching clinic at Providence St. Peter Hospital in Olympia.
The donors are the school's 150 students, in kindergarten through sixth grade.
The clinic's patients include low-income families, parent volunteer Rachelle Dudley said.
"You can walk out with a brand new (stuffed) animal so you're not afraid to go back again," 7-year-old Anna Grace Hartly said.
"Sometimes if you have something that you don't want, you should give it to someone instead of throwing it in the garbage," she added.
Some of the donations will be going to the hospital's sexual abuse program, Dudley said.
Not only have the first-graders used the opportunity to learn about helping others and volunteering, but teacher Peggy Broman is using the experience to help the students practice their math skills.
As they gather the toys and books from each classroom, the first-graders learn how to use tally marks.
After tallying the donations from each classroom, they go to a scoreboard in the hallway to give one sticker to each classroom for every five donations.
With the scoreboard, they practice counting by fives and 10s and estimating amounts.
"We wanted it to be educational, as well as something they give from their hearts," Broman said.
Eye on kindergartners
The class with the most donations will get a pizza and treats party.
"We're pretty sure the kindergarten will win because they already have so many," said Erica Slemmer, 6.
"We could get to the top because I still haven't brought my stuff," said classmate Seth Humble, 7.
Broman said the unexpected part was how picky the students have been in accepting donations. They have been thoughtful and thorough in accepting high-quality gifts.
"We have to do the job of, 'Would I want this book?' " Anna Grace said. "Because some people just throw it in the box without thinking about whether it's dirty or whether they would want it."
Erica added, "You don't want to get a dirty old toy."
Venice Buhain covers education for The Olympian. She can be reached at 360-754-5445 or vbuhain@theolympian.com.

Update! As of today, total donations over 2000 items!

Saturday, February 9, 2008

Welcome Fatima!

Dr. Fatima is an EF Language student from Brazil. She is here to improve here English, but we think she speaks very well already. Fatima is an endocronologist. She has 2 daughters; 13 years old and 15 years old (who is Lucas's new pen-pal). Her husband is a mining engineer.

We are really enjoying her visit and are learning a lot about Brazil. For instance, Brazilians speak Porteguese, not Spanish. Similar to Australia, the Porteguese sent all their criminals to colonize the "new land." Did you know that Brazilian women usaually keep their maidens names when they get married? Do you know the name of the animal in the photo? It is called a cabivara. They inhabit the lake near her house. Did you know that they do not have such things as foreclosures in Brazil? The government or banks can never take your house? 12 oranges cost less than 50 cents. And ladies - a pedicure and manicure can be had for only $7.00 US. Check out the Brazilian recipe below.

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Friday's Rock!

It's Friday night, sitt'n back with bestfriend Deaven, eating pizza, watching Avatar. Can life get any better?

Monday, January 28, 2008

Need to Borrow a Cup Sugar from your Neighbor?



Okay, this is funny...the visit from our former Indonesian student prompted me to pull out my Indonesian cookbook and start exploring recipes. As anyone who cooks Thai, Malaysian, etc. knows, getting the proper ingredients can be challenging in Olympia. Almost all Indonesian dishes call for galangal root, a ginger-like root but not quite. I've been on a quest to find it but haven't had any luck. The other day while shopping I ran into my friend and neighbor Christine, I tell her of my recent trip to the Asian market searching for galangal. She says why didn't you ask me?I have it, I'll give you some! Why limit your borrowing to eggs, sugar and flour when you have a neighbor with galangal root?